Have you ever (romantically) loved more than one person at the same time?

A friend of mine asked me on the other day:
Have you ever (romantically) loved more than one person at the same time?

Curious on what inflicted her to ask such question, me being me of course probed her with various questions. Turned out that this friend of mine has been in love with 3 people during the same period of time. And it is still going strong at this moment, the love for every single one of them.

Is it really possible? All this time, I always thought that love has its own preference. You can love some people at the same time, but it will surely not be at the same degree of affection. Even parents, who supposedly have this unconditional love for their children, have their own favorites (although by all means they will not admit it!).

Yet, she seems to believe that her love is divided equally among her lovers. The question she threw is still there, up in the air. Every now and then it will come down and tickle my mind forcing me to stop doing whatever I am doing and encourage me to wonder on the possibilities.

I must admit that I am intrigued.. And still wondering..

Maybe someone would be able to help me with this??

Anyone??? Heeeeeeeeeeeeelllpppp..!!

OMG

OMG! I have abandoned this blog for God knows when!

I remember that I promised myself to write twice a week minimum. But somehow I managed to go back to the old habit, lazy & forgetful. I guess it's true, old habit dies hard..

Alrite then, from now on, I am going to try to hold myself from making empty promises. And I promise to put the alarm as a reminder of blogging time. (heh? Didn't I just said that I am not going to make empty promises? I should've known myself better! :P)

What made me here again? Today, I was browsing my friend's profile in Facebook (yes people, I do procrastinate by facebooking) when suddenly my eyes saw a glimpse of a blog address among those jumbling words in contact info section. Yes, it hit me, I felt guilty as charged that I immediately opened my blog. Of course, after several attempts of password. (yeah, serves me right! hahahha..)

So here I am now, in the office, in New York City, blogging instead of working.

Long Lost Friend Has Returned

Long lost friend has indeed returned.
Hopefully this time he does not disappear again, for his own good I'd say :)

It's funny how a friend can disappear for quite sometime, yet when he return we accept him back quickly and happily. Unconditional love? Dunno that fancy thing, but that words do make sense and resemble what me & Anggie just did this afternoon.

Today is a special day!
Somehow today we ended up skipping our work and bailed out of office meetings. Instead, we met each other: had lunch together followed by coffee afterwards. This must have sound weird, how come three good friends consider this as a special occasion? It is special because one of our (me & Anggie) good friends came back and joined us there, a good friend that had deserted us both for quite a while. There were not any news or whatsoever that shows his existence in our lives (too much? that's the truth though, you don't expect me to cover it up, rite Get? :p)

But we missed him and we're just glad that he's here now..
So glad that I decided to write it here :)

Welcome back dear friend! ;)

Hepi Bersdey Mas!

After 2 1/2 years of togetherness, several members of my team have left to other companies. But no worries, that fact doesn't deter us for having casual meetings, as always :)

This time it was in F-Bar (EX) for our mentor's birthday celebration. It was like the same ol' times when we were still working together, side-by-side. unfortunately, farina can not join us due to business reason (what the heck is this..?! hahahha).

I just hope that this circle will last.. Hepi bersdey Mas Henry! :)

News

Yep, they chose me..

And I wrote a post about to stop and take a rest??? Geeeezz..

Stop and Take a Rest

Being involved in various communities and activities has its own advantages and disadvantages. One of the effects is feeling tired, could be physically or emotionally. This time it's physically tired for me. Various activities juggle together in my daily schedule, barely left me time to think and breathe. (and I thought breathing is automatic!)

What..? Another one to juggle? alright..

Hmmm.. Just got the news for another activity that somehow got myself volunteered.. yeah that's right, again :)

Why volunteer? well this one is different and seems to need higher level of responsibility. For this activity actually there's a screening process. First, we have to submit motivation letter, CV, and recommendation letter. Then, after passing the screening, interview is awaiting. How did I do?

Will let you know in the later post..

Another One Left

A month ago two have left..

Then, another one left..

A good friend of mine has just moved to another company, for better earning I suppose, if not life :) Since then several colleagues have asked me lots of different questions. But basically they were 5W + H, like when we start learning English: what, why, when, where, who and how.

Tired of thinking for the answers, might as well I list them here.

What?
1. yeah, she has moved
2. What?
3. What do u mean?

Why?
1. Why not?
2. Why asking?
3. Everybody wants a raise, if u cant get it here then get it somewhere else

When?
1. What do u mean when, when she starts not showing up at the office of course
2. Didn't u get the goodbye email? oh sorry, u're not that close to her then
3. Mmm.. can't remember, why?

Where?
1. Hmmm..
2. She didin't tell you? oh sorry, u're not that close to her then
3. Somewhere better I hope :)

Who?
1. What do u mean who? U're asking about her rite?
2. Heh? Weirdo!

How?
1. First u apply, then if the're interested they'll call u for interviews, then.. then..
2. Well, by looking around? by keeping your options open?

Huweeeeee.. at the end I should just tell them: If you're that interested, just give her a call and ask her personally, she might entertain you with other answers.. hahahaha :D

Whatever answers I give them, the bottom line is still the same.. another one left..

Life goes on..